What I like the most from my experience is What I wrote is "Such situations are not to ruin my life ,to make me a better person, It is in the difficulties that we do the growing and become better person. all of us facing down and ups situation. In my point view in life it is just how we handle ourselves we all have a choice as to how we interpret a particular situation. We can react with automatic, negative thoughts, or we can interpret the same situation with positive , just like personal problems i can have a strength through by my friends i have good friends, not to mention, they are my very closed friends of mine, from my (husband bestfriend) and the other one is my friend from the school, she's nice she keep up with me even if she's black, she is very nice lady. i can see not all black is bad. the good thing for this. my friend, become my lover for a couple of months :) but not now, true story. have a good weekend everyone.